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Joel Hearshen

Dec 14, 1944 - May 25, 2023

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Childcare

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Family Visitation

  • Hospital Visitation 5/23 : 10am-12pm

  • Hospital Visitation 5/23: 1:00pm-3:00pm

  • Hospital Visitation 5/23: 3:00pm-5:00pm

  • Visit with a Family Member

Miscellaneous

  • Collecting Items at The William Breman Jewish Home: Afternoon (Contact Adam)

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Page Admins: Nicole Feldman, Josh Hearshen, Carrie Hearshen, Adam Kofinas, Ann Benator, Rachel Rickwardt

Welcome to the Support Registry for the Family of Joel Hearshen.

This is a place to see all the family's needs in one place.

The experience is separated into 2 sections:

1) Support: Help meet the family's needs, such as organizing meals, or coordinating volunteers.

  • To contribute funds towards meals for the family, please click on "Support the Family" on the top right section of this website and note "Hearshen Meals".  For any questions, please reach out to Ann Benator at 404-784-1284 or Annbn8r@gmail.com. 
  • To volunteer your time, see the "volunteer" tab for areas where we can use a few extra hands.

2) Memories: Share pictures, stories, and memories to help the family capture the essence and impact of Joel's life.

We invite you to join us in the ways you feel comfortable.

Thank you.

 

Shacharit and morning visitation Monday May 29th, Tuesday May 30th, Thursday June 1st, and Friday, June 2nd 8 am - 11 am at the home of Rabbi Josh (Carrie) Hearshen (2112 Village Point NE Brookhaven, GA 30319).

Afternoon vIsitation Monday May 29th through Thursday June 1st 2pm - 4 pm at the home of Rabbi Josh (Carrie) Hearshen (2112 Village Point NE Brookhaven, GA 30319).

Nightly Micha/Arvit and visitation Sunday May 28th through Thursday June 1st at Congregation Or VeShalom 6:00 pm until 8:30 pm each evening with the service at 7:00 pm.

Services

Funeral

May 28, 2023 - 01:00:00 PM

Congregation Or VeShalom
1681 N. Druid Hills
Brookhaven, GA 30319

Obituary

Joel Ruskin Hearshen, beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend passed away on May 25, 2023, at the age of 78. Joel was born on December 14, 1944 in Detroit, Michigan to Beatrice and Berl Hearshen.

He is survived by his wife of 50 years, Nancy Hearshen; his children Rachel (Christian) Rickwardt of Frankfurt, Germany and Rabbi Josh (Carrie) Hearshen of Brookhaven, Georgia; his sister and brother-in-law Fern and Mike Halem of Moorpark, California; his two granddaughters, Ayelet and Galit Hearshen and he is pre-deceased by his brother and sister-in-law Norman and Elaine Hearshen. He is also survived by nieces and nephews, cousins and numerous family and friends.

Joel spent his career as a Social Science teacher in the Detroit Public School system along with working as an Adjunct Professor at Madonna University in Livonia, MI. During the summers he enjoyed working as a house painter with a fellow educator. Joel was a voracious reader who loved history and learning about the nations of the world. He served as a board member of his synagogue, Temple Emanu-El in Oak Park, Mi. 

He was a joyful person who was inquisitive and filled with knowledge of the world that far outreached his education. He loved to laugh and he loved to tell stories. His family was very important to him and he spent his happiest times with them. When he became a grandfather he began his second life as one of the greatest ones ever made and there was nothing that he wouldn’t do for his two granddaughters. He loved music, especially the music from his childhood and formative years. He also loved to take trips in the car and to drive all over our wonderful country. Joel was always happy in the kitchen where he and his wife, Nancy, would make all sorts of delicious dishes for themselves and for their family.

Some of Joel’s happiest times were spent reading books, both fiction and non-fiction. He always adored the summers that he, Nancy, and their children spent in Charlevoix, MI. During his retirement he enjoyed volunteering at the Detroit Zoo and he also volunteered with meals on wheels and the annual Christmas Day volunteer program in Metropolitan, Detroit.

Joel lost his battle with bladder cancer on May 25, 2023. His fight began in August of 2022 and he fought with courage and with resolve that he would beat it. This battle was filled with ups and downs though he believed and his family believes that he will never be defined by it. 

The funeral was held on May 28, 2023 at 1:00pm at Congregation OVS and will be followed by burial at Greenwood Cemetery in Atlanta, GA. The family asks for memories to be shared on Joel’s Mi Alma page at https://app.mialma.com/joel-hearshen. Donations can be made to the Congregation Or VeShalom Future Fund.

 

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DH

Thinking of you and your family. Sending love and comfort as you go through the process of mourning tthe tremendous loss of your father. May his memory always be a blessing. Bill and Deborah Hatherley and Victor Levy

SS

My heart goes out to you all. Josh, your father was a wonderful man and lived an honorable life. Together with your mom, they raised a beautiful family. I feel pain for your loss. Much love to you, Carrie, your beautiful girls, your mom and the entire family. May your Shabbat be one of peace.

LG

Dear Rabbi and family, we are so saddened for the loss of your dear father and grandfather. May your close relationships with him and each other help carry you through this sad time. We hope this gift of food will help ease the grief as you mourn the tremendous loss. Sincerely, Lynne and Scott Galanti

VO

May your fathers memory be a blessing to you and your family!

LR

Many memories of good times together bring you and yours comfort.

LR

Many memories of good times together bring you and yours comfort.

JA

To Rabbi Hearshen and family,so sorry for the loss of Joel.May his name be for a blessing.Jeannine and Aaron Altmann

PF

Dear sweet family, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. May your dad’s memory be a beautiful blessing to your family.

PF

Dear sweet family, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. May your dad’s memory be a beautiful blessing to your family.

JS

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your dear father. We have been out of town since Thursday and just returned last night. Please know we have been thinking of you and will see you at services tonight. We hope your memories of good times shared with your dad will help to comfort you at this time. ❤️ Janet and Mike Seligson

JG

You are in our thoughts and prayers. May Mr. Hearshen's memory always be a blessing.

JV

Hugs from the Van Der Stelt family

HG

Joel was a dear friend. Our memories of him will always be with us. Howard & Meredith Goldberg

SS

We offer our loving condolences too all🙏❤️ Susan & Ira Hearshen

MR

Dear Rabbi, (and Carrie, Ayelet, Galit, and family), We are so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. It was wonderful to get to know your parents from the interview you did with them on zoom. And it was so obvious how much he was loved, how proud of you he was, and easy to see that he will be so missed. We are thinking of you and your family at this sad and difficult time. Michelle and Craig Rich

DH

Nancy, Rachel, Josh, and Fern and the Hearshen family, you are in our thoughts. We will see you tomorrow.

SK

HE WAS A GENTLEMAN TO ALL

SS

For Shiva dinner

EC

My deepest sympathies to all

JM

Thinking of all of you at this incredibly difficult time. We share more than a name, and those memories will last our lifetime.

Giving Funds to Support

The family has respectfully requested not to receive direct gifts.

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Support the family of Joel Hearshen by covering the costs of food.

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Volunteer Support

Volunteer Opportunities are for supporters to express interest. Choosing 'volunteer' will make admin aware of your willingness to help, but does not a guarantee you will be called upon to provide the assistance.


Childcare

  • Children Pick-Up/Drop-off

  • Babysitting/House Sitting

Family Visitation

  • Hospital Visitation 5/23 : 10am-12pm

  • Hospital Visitation 5/23: 1:00pm-3:00pm

  • Hospital Visitation 5/23: 3:00pm-5:00pm

  • Visit with a Family Member

Miscellaneous

  • Collecting Items at The William Breman Jewish Home: Afternoon (Contact Adam)

  • Collecting Items at The William Breman Jewish Home: Afternoon (Contact Adam)

  • Collecting Items at The William Breman Jewish Home: Afternoon (Contact Adam)

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My dad turned me onto the Who when I was in middle school and he showed me Tommy. The movie freaked me out a little, I mean Ann Margaret rolling around in baked beans was bizarre. It was wonderful to get a chance to take my dad to see Roger Daltrey live years later. We had so much fun at that concert.


RR
  • Jun 01, 2023

When my parents and I still lived in Michigan, one of our favorite things to do together was to go out to eat. This beautiful picture was taken on my birthday one year at Knights in Ann Arbor. I will forever treasure all of those yummy times. In fact, quite often my parents and I would be driving all over late at night, trying to find a decent restaurant open. We were always night owls.


RR
  • Jun 01, 2023

This is one of my favorite pictures of me and my dad. It is from when I was a teenager and we were up north in Charlevoix at the house we rented every summer. I just feel like it oozes love. Love you to the moon and back papa foosen.


RR
  • Jun 01, 2023

My husband, Christian, and I were able to finally visit last October. Having lived in Frankfurt since January 2020, between Covid and other health issues this was the first time we were able to come in. I love this picture of the four of us, because the smiles can barely be contained on our faces. That is how I want to remember my dad.


RR
  • Jun 01, 2023

When we lived in Farmington Hills, we used to love hanging out by the pool. We also loved to take selfies or "ussies" making silly faces. These pictures capture both of these happy memories.


RR
  • Jun 01, 2023

Here is an interview that I did with my parents a few years back.


JH
  • Jun 01, 2023

I don't have the words to convey how much my dad means to me and how much I miss him. So here's a picture from happier and goofier times.


RR
  • May 29, 2023

Pic from way back!


MF
  • May 25, 2023

I am lucky to have many fond memories of your Dad.  It always stood out to me how much he loved his wife, children, and grandchildren.  An incredibly kind and gentle man.  

He and your mom extended that kindness to me and my children many times.   Your parents often acted as surrogate grandparents and attended a 'grandparents day' when Noah was in preschool.   ❤️ 


DS
  • May 25, 2023

This is just about how I remember my childhood. My dad was always the one taking the pictures. The man behind the camera. There are so few pictures of him from back then because he was the one always taking the pics. This one was taken by me in 2016 during Hanukah when Carrie, Ayelet and me went back to Michigan. Rachel joined us and mom and dad when we went to Ann Arbor for lighting candles with Aunt Sarah and Uncle Fred z''l. My dad loved to have multiple menorahs and I believe his favorite was the one that he inherited from his parents. 


JH
  • May 24, 2023

This was Thanksgiving 2022. So much to be thankful for that you gave us dad. I remember as a kid waking up and watching the Detroit Thanksgiving Parade while you and mom made lemon meringue and pumpkin chafan pies crust and all. I remember how you always wanted the dark meat. I am thankful for you. 


JH
  • May 24, 2023

My dear friend from Mumford high school. You were a great teacher and many people were so impressed with your knowledge. You left an incredible mark on your former students. We both had some interesting teaching stories as we shared them with each other. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. You are a gift to all those who know you. 


HG
  • May 24, 2023

Abba. 

I was born on your day. We have spent 44 12/14s together. I remember last year panicking that this would be the last and unfortunately it will be. Each year at midnight it was a mad dash to see who would call who first. It was a competition. 
When I was younger you would take me for rides around Detroit and show me the old neighborhoods. You would tell me stories that I tried to show interest in and wish I had been more interested in. I know I will write many of these but for this one I want to focus on the books. Boy oh boy did you have a lot of books. I remember when I was a kid that we would need to move books to find a place to sit down. Your library always had World War II books in it and we shared a common interest in studying the war and the Holocaust together. When I moved you down to Tampa you had so many books that I had begged you to not bring. You didn't need them in my opinion. I started to unpack for you guys and there were the books and I started to organize them and then to make a large pile of what I thought would be lovely donations. You were not having it. Whether it was arguing with me or it was you simply taking books out of the pile when I wasn't looking you couldn't let go. 

Now look at my library. I have an extensive one at work and a very nice one at home. Ayelet has her library in her room and Galit is beginning to have a growing collection on her shelves as well. Whenever someone tells me to get rid of one or a bunch I look at them like they are crazy. 

You see Abba. You are my book. We have a beginning that began together on your birthday that I took. We have rising action in the form of childhood. We have the climax when you became a grandfather. We have your years of following us in Tampa and Atlanta that are sort of like falling action and now we are reaching the conclusion of your book. I pray that I will have your book in my library forever as it is something that is so loved and cherished by me. 

I love you. 


JH
  • May 23, 2023

My aunt Beatrice and cousins Norman, Joel and Fern.  My colorized photo of them.


SR
  • May 23, 2023

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